If he’s not willing to wait until you’re ready for sex or intimate contact. September 18, 2010 at pm (Dating Advice, Dating Issues) (Chatty Cathy, Dating, Love, relationships, single women, Talking Too Much) I’m going to pick on people who talk too much.If he can’t make plans with you two weeks in advance. If he’s not willing to swim through shark infested waters to bring you a cucumber sandwich… I feel that I have the right to do so, as I’m a recovering Chatty Cathy.The neon sign you’re projecting to the world is, I only have a “few” boundaries between me and you.
Let the program protect your heart, not cold hard metal. September 26, 2010 at pm (Dating Advice) Several women come to me right after they’ve broken up with someone they love. My last breakup lasted an entire year where I waffled between self-hatred and suicide on a daily basis. Why can’t he see that if only he’d understand my viewpoint then we’d live happily every after. I’m not the sort to wax nostalgic about moving back to Tulsa and missing all my buds there. A breakup is very similar to experiencing the death of a loved one.Until he finds love within, he will continue to look for love without.He travels a journey all on his own, and you cannot go with him.For me, the advice is to remove their number from your contacts list to keep you from calling him in weak moments.I was sure I wouldn’t have any weak moments and was in no danger of calling him.That’s why you have to date as many men as you possibly can and view each of them not as a potential mate, but more as someone you’re practicing with. Remember there are five phases to a relationship: Wooing, Dating, Courtship, Engagement, and Marriage.